Premature Pussy Poppin'. by Felecia Coleman.
So I sign into Facebook and I’m doing the usual- Facebook IMing, tagging pictures, and reading notifications while listening to Carter III. When suddenly I am attracted to a certain status that looks different from the others. One of the ones that has links to another site with an intriguing caption of WOWZERS right next to it. I clicked the link expecting something like a new song on you tube to show up or a picture of some face book hoochie but when the site comes up, I notice that maybe this particular link had some significance.
And there it was. In big white letters in that blue tool box.
"WHO IS TO BLAME FOR THIS ADULT BEHAVIOR”
A video comes up and the freeze frame is this 5 year old girl in a bright pink halter top backing her lil ass on this 5 year old boy at a party. And I’m like WHAT THE FUCK!? I press play and sure enough this little girl is gettin’ it more than I ever could! I mean putting in work! And this little boy is holding her waist as the audience of family and friends are entertained by this little girl basically dry humping this little boy!
After a couple face to face humps, the girl turns around, gets her iggalo on, then DROPS to the ground on her knees and starts percolating her little body up and down! The boy then drops to the floor, gets under her ass and they are basically fuckin with clothes on I SWEAR! The family is in the background screaming “OH SHIT! YEAH!! YEAHH!” and the little boy looks up at them with the biggest cheese on his face. Then the little girl gets up, sees the responses and LOVES IT as she continues to shake it! This is followed by a bit of ass-grabbing, more dry-humping, more shimmying, and booty claps. Not to mention a standing ovation and a round of applause from the adults in the room.
This is RIDICULOUS! I mean OUT OF THIS WORLD TYPE SHIT! Like SOMEONE NEEDS TO ACT QUICK type shit! Like I CANT BELIEVE THIS TYPE SHIT type shit.
Who the hell taught this girl how to bump and grind and who the hell taught that little boy how to respond! I mean really, she had her hands on her knees “poppin her pussy“! And I just can not believe my eyes! And fuckin grandma is in the background clapping saying “get it girl!“ as the whole family forms a circle around them and cheers! Like it’s a fuckin super bowl or something! No one in the room even thought it was a problem! I’m just sitting back in my computer chair watching this shit thinking HOW THE HELL DO YOU THINK THIS IS OKAY FOR 5 YEAR OLD SHANEEQUA TO KNOW HOW TO POP HER PUSSY?! HOW IS THAT ACCEPTABLE?! I mean, this girl is giving this boy the business. In a regular situation, the guy would have had a woody by now but then I remembered HIS BALLS HAVN’T EVEN DROPPED YET!
By now I turned off my Carter III. And I realize that maybe that’s what we all need to do. Turn off these songs that only adults and teenagers understand the real meaning of the words to. We know that “lick it like a lollipop” isn’t talking about lollipops. And “I got the magic stick” isn’t talking about magic. But lil Keesha doesn’t and this is what she hears on the radio. This is what she fills her head with. That making love in a club is FINE and that it is A-OKAY for everyone to “know that’s his bust-it-baby” whenever they go around and ask about her. ITS NOT OKAY.
I’m not goin’ on hip-hop, because I’m a proud supporter most times. But this calls for immediate attention because this wasn’t just some random you tube video. This was a legitimate site. The video had WorldStarHipHop.com in the middle of the screen as if they had chose this particular video and stamped it with a link as their sign of approval.
These kids should be learning or playing video games. Not “freakin” which is in reality nothing more than a cheap imitation of sex.
So back to the original question..
.. WHO’S TO BLAME FOR THIS ADULT BEHAVIOR?
The artists.
The radio stations.
Dumbass granny in the back cheering them on.
And everyone else that promotes to kids that this music is for learning from.
The caption in the status right next to the link is very true.
WOWZERS.
Because after watching that, that’s really all I can say.
-stay blunt
Felecia Coleman
WORD ON THE STREET
Q: After watching the video, what do you think about it??? Here’s the word on the street.
"i think sex is takin over and kids allowed 2 c too damn much.
if my 6yr old ever popped better den her mother im beatin her ass" -xxDaRealOneManxx
Dear xxDaRealOneManxx,
Lmao! Agreed. But hey, you know what the say… “she get it from her mama” lls!
"omggggggggg they look like they're like 5!
&& i think that its tv and their parents letting them watching it. particularly like music videos.
this is crazyyy!" -SputnikEatsCheese
Dear SputnikEatsCheese,
This is definitely crazy! And you’re right, the parents need to use their parental controls.. Lol or at least the V-Chip!
"i think it was disturbing. . .that little girl danced better than me and i don’t think that’s fair. but it kinda freaked me out that she was like 4 and dancing like she’s like grown or something. idk it was weird for me." -AcidKnee102
Dear AcidKnee102,
I’m sure, it was weird for all of us. Trust me. And yeah.. Makes you ask yourself if the diaper was a bit uncomfortable to dance in lmao! Just kidding!
"well i believe that it clearly depicts the terrible job that some parents do in inner-city America." -bonjour Dan987
Dear bonjour Dan987,
You got that right.Something needs to be done.
"I think that is a really good topic to address because this little girl doesn’t need to know how to be doing this stuff! She’s like 5 and there is no excuse for everyone around her to be clapping along. I don’t know, maybe my parents just raised me better than that." -aLittleLessLethal:)
Dear aLittleLessLethal:),
Our parents raised us to stand up straight… not bend over! Lmao!
-stay blunt-
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31 comments:
as fans of the worldwide media (tv, radio, music, etc) its not our business to agree with the content. because of course it comes down to Constitutional Rights. so it's the parents' fault. i really hope that this is the only case, because knowing people, this prolly won't be the last video. smh...
wwwoooowww.....
um.....
hmm...
as ridiculous as this seems and looks, why am i NOT surprised??
oh my effin jeeez! this just pissed me off. as much as i hate to say it... this is the new generation if people [parents]don't get their shit together. ugh!
wtf!?! this is sum otha shyt. dese kids r lyke 6!! thats crazy
this is crazii most of yall talk about the lil gurl but the lil boy couldnt keep his hands to his self and there where grown ppl in the back ground jus chillen and doin nuffin
wow!....that blog was great!
it really makes u think...
ALOT about how u act and the way you will want/let ur kids act....cuz those r 2 VERY different things...
the WRITING was wonderful! the video was a lil creepy and disturbing!
thanx for makin me think!
OMG...DAT LIL GURL...WUZ "SHAKIN OFF"..SHE OUT TO BE IN THE HOUSE PLAYIN WIT SUM BARBIE'S...SIKE LOL...
~I feel like you are doing too much...
pretending like this is something new...
they learned from you the same as u learned from older generations...
yes though they are reflecting what they see at a younger age....they are just following in many of your footsteps...
i can assurely say that many of you who are all suprise go to party and that same "freaking", "Dry humming", "Pussy popping" (which is a ignorant way to refer to it by the way), are things that many of us, maybe not all but a very large portion of you take involvement in these same acts...(maybe not with adults onlooking and cheering you on but you do)....
and for the person who composed this you have a nerve seeing that u were listening to lil wayne...who may i add is a large cause of the problem in our community...
"Pop bottles","Lollipop", "Alphabet Bitches"...now picture a lil boy saying lick my wrapper, or how about "and if you don't swallow shut up bitch gaggle"....though you want to make it seem as if because of age it is acceptable to be exposed to this...IT IS NOTTTTTT.....because the same way lil kids that age are taking it without complete comprehension teenagers are...and the males teen years and up...are coming at females quoting these same songs....and you same lil females your age and up are acceptable to it....
these lil kids did not learn these things out of the sky...so where did they learn it????!?!?!?
sometimes when there is an issue with society you have to turn around and point the finger at yourself. you can't call someone else out on doing wrong, and point out others imperfections if your engaging in the same activities. first of all, as a writer "pussy poppin" is an ignorant term, it would be perfect for grabbing an audience.but if your trying to remove people from thinking in an ignorant state of mind, then you cant be ignorant or take this as a joke. ignorance is ignorance no matter how you sugar coat it. if your listening to lil wayne then you don't even have a right to speak on anyone else being sexually inapropriate or derogatory if your listening to that filth. your are being a hypocrite and people like you are part of whats wrong with our country. get it together!
as the writer,
i appreciate everyones input and thanks for commenting. the point of the note was to get people to think.
but in response to rahmah, i have to say that i beleive you are wrong. i wasnt pretending like this is new- im aware that there are little kids that dance this way, but when i saw the video of these kids in particular i WAS astonished. my jaw litereally dropped. i dont think i "did too much". i think i did exactly what needed to be done- get people thinking.
you mentioned that they learned from "me" in particular? and i beg to differ.. none of my little cousins have been taught by me how to bump and grind like that. so the accusations you've made, i think are false ones and assumptions.
as for the term "pussy poppin" as an "ignorant term". i dont think there is a such thing as an ignorant term. term itself intitles that its my opinion.. and what may be ignorant to you, may not be ignorant to me.. and everytime i used "pussy poppin" i put it in quotations as a means to show that its a universal term that we all hear on the street. and as a blog writer, i dont think you have the right to tell me how to write.. if the term is how i feel then i should be able to be blunt and say how i feel..
hence- BLUNTLYPUTS: PREMATURE PUSSY POPPIN'.
and as for me listening to lil wayne affecting my position..
if you read and comprehended the blog in its full entirety, you would see that i said "MAYBE THATS WHAT WE ALL NEED TO DO--- TURN OFF OUR LIL WAYNE" and i went into a discussion about WHY listening to LOLLIPOP and these songs is A PROBLEM.. so in reality im agreeing with you..
i also agree that US teens being exposed to these lyrics isnt okay.. but its even more disturbing knowing that 5 year olds are listening to it. and reciting these lyrics without knowing the actual meaning. atleast as teens we know (or are capable of finding out) what "lollipop" actually means.
and to anonymous,
i agree that sometimes you have to point your finger at yourself.. that was the point of the blog.. to ask yourself "who's to blame for this adult behavior?"
and your'e absolutely right, we cant call someone out on doing something wrong when we are engaging in the same activities.. which leads us to question "should WE AS TEENS even be able to dance like this???"
and once again i do not agree that "pussy poppin" is an ignorant term. my blog is meant to offend as well as question. it is meant to be overly blunt and for some one to question my words. but all in all, i think thats what people need/ want to hear.. someone BLUNT. who doesnt care about terms. sometimes ppl just want to hear from someone REAL.
and i do NOT take this as a joke.. in the blog i stated that "THIS IS SERIOUS TYPE SHIT."
and again, i dont think you read the entire blog. my concluding thought at the end of the blog was that "maybe thats what we all should do-- TURN OFF OUR LIL WAYNE".
i appreciate your input, but to these two comments i would hope that the namecaling (hypocrite) and the attitude phrases (doing to much) wouldnt be said unless you fully read and comprehended the blog.
all in all, i appreciate EVERYONE'S input. this is exactly what needs to happen. we all need to think and realize that these kids arent that much different from us.. or are they?
I'll leave it at this..."pussy" originated back in a time was racism was prevelant and females vagina was called that after many of years of white males would cut out the babies of impregnated females and then replace them with cats sew the females back up and then make bets on how long it would take for the cat to claw their way out of the female...."pussy" is very deragatory and as long as ur referring to your organ of reproduction like that....the lyrics in which we are listening to and freaking, dry humping, or whatever...even if we cut the lil wayne's off we will still be stuck with little kids following the same negative patterns...when confidently saying "blantant" "NEGATIVITY"...
Well thank you for that origin of the word. Honestly I didn't know that. And although it may be degrating, ppl say it. And when ppl say the word "pussy", im sure they don't know the meaning of it nd don't think they're offending anyone.
I put it in quotations because I personally hardly ever use that word. But it applied to the situation. What would be considered "pussy poppin" from at 26yr old woman was being done by a 6yr old kid. Instead of blaming me for using the term, blame the public..
And I think we're drifting away from the initial point of the blog. Its not the origin of the words I used but more so the meaning of the blog as a whole.
-the writer
children are like sponges...no like a blank canvas..sitting in the middle of an art studio....hundreds of different artists, painters, spray paint artists, sculptures, they are all working around this canvas....and because they are so wrapped up in making their creations they don't realize they are splattering their paints and clays and ideas all over this blank canvas.....
Before long, this once, clean...empty pure canvas has been more or less tainted by the people who have always been the mockeries of society...the ARTISTS. This canvas is a reflection of the people and medias it has been unconsciously exposed to..
But something I have always thought about....art is a reflection of the times. People create. NaS said "...no ideas orignal, there's nothing new under the sun..its never what you...its how its done..." so these songs and videos are these artists representation of what they see happening in the world now days. They were children whose canvas got splatted with the worlds bullshit images, and they are reflections. Its a consistantly evolving chain and unless we start breaking off the negative links..............there will be nomore, standards to what is and what isn't considered "acceptable"....
---Liz J
Very well put, liz
good point. but horribly written. this brings down the standards for newlifee. seems like anyone can write for you guys. not impressed.
ooo,
wow...
thank you for your feedback
lls
--Liz J
though this isn't my blog...
i appreciate that comment greatly Liz...
because this is exactly what people are failing to see as the problem...
I'm so confused why annonymous whoever it may be is trying to down the person who wrote this blog. I think it was genius for the writer to refer to it as pussy poppin cause that is in terms what the black generation typically call it. Like we already stated the lil waynes of the world..is exactly what it is called. So why should we ignore what she be brought into the light. Maybe this conversation is just for grown folk mind sets..but, I appreciate it. It needed to be seen and said because it caused and impact. It made whoever is annonymous fired up..it brought and emotion. Writer, that is what makes a good writer..keep on writing! Well done!
um. no. persuasive writing is meant to make the reader think. and if you want to evoke intelligence in others then you have to be intelligent. and "This is RIDICULOUS! I mean OUT OF THIS WORLD TYPE SHIT! Like SOMEONE NEEDS TO ACT QUICK type shit! Like I CANT BELIEVE THIS TYPE SHIT type shit." isnt intelligent,its horrible writing
Felecia is extremely intelligent.
No New Lifee writer is posting these blogs with the intentions of becoming Commonwealth Writers Prize winners or Pulitzer Prize winners.
The blogs are simply written because the writers were inspired, or felt the need to share..bring attention to something, promote something, vent....
How many blogs do you read? How many blogs have you browsed recently? Blogs vary in subject, tone, and audience....
I'm sorry if this is not your preferred reading material...well, actually no, I don't apologize for my writers blog, I think its very BLUNT and I believe she executed a blog about touchy subject in todays society very well.
---Liz J
CEO
Ok im aware of who you are by the way.
Nd what do you mean persuasive writing isn't made to make the reader think? Everything in this world is meant to make ppl think.
And how can you call me unintellegent based on a sentence.
This is very immature. I personally will not be responding to anymore negative comments made by you.
Why tthe hostility? If u don't like my piece than that's fine. But why do u feel the need to embarass yourself by downgrading newifee and me as a writer?
Its childish.
And no other comments seem to agree with you.
Because im aware of ewho you are im not responding. Go elsewhere with your negative energy. Pleasse stop poisioning newlifee101
-felecia coleman
it doesnt matter. this isnt personal, nothing against you. don't write a blog if you arent prepared for the negativity you might get from it.
What do you expect?
That was very disturbing. No I won't blame the little girl `cause she got a brain that needs to be molded. And if it is in the form of a pole in a trip club. blame the fucking parents.
But its a bit different when the negative comments are from negative ppl in my personal life. Its blatant that you attacked me because u chose to argue over an issue that everyone can agree on-- that this is an issue.
Im prepared for negativity but not immature negativity that uses "name calling", negativity that choses to say that because I wrote this one blog that I MYSELF am responsible for the problems of the country, nd negativity that puts words in my mouth that I clearly did not say. Your arguement was based on assumption, personal feelings nd misunderstanding of the blog. I don't want to argue with you. But I really don't appreciate you saying those things on a blog of mine when you are aware of our terms.
With the relationship you nd I have, you should go by the phrase "if u don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all".
That goes for you and only you in this whole wide world.
Im prepared for negativity made by anyone else.
I didn't expect you to stoop so low.
I
You bashed newlifee on the newlifee site and if because im a writer downgrades newlifee to you, then I ask that you take your "higher expectations" elsewere and call it a day.
I would really like to refrain from conversations like these on newlifee so if you must respond than just hit me up with a msg or something.
damn
NOBODY on this blog has a life
lmao
this has to be our most "successful" post
Lls it seems that way
But noo this whole thing turned into unfinished personal business.
Nd no life stan? Lmao
This is my life lol
-felecia coleman
The writing wasn't horrible at all...not writing is what is horrible! Annonymous whoever they are, is trying so hard to convince readers that it was poorly written and no one agrees. You simply are not coming with a good debate. Maybe you should re-read the piece again because no ill intention is meant by it..so, just a suggestion. Why be mad and ridicule someone about exposing something that the black society needs to see? That's what i call RIDICULOUS! Whoever annoynmous is..maybe it's something personal to you that you have experienced that is bringing such tension and if so, write about it. Write your own blog but don't criticize to the extent that you are..it's really not a good look for you. EVERYONE SHOULD WRITE MORE! We can never have enough writers in the world..on that note ~PEACE~
So.//
You say that we go to parties and display the same form of intimacy, which nevertheless is loose, disgusting, and highly inappropriate but apparently acceptable because of >>our<< age.
Lets just keep in mind that .THESE CHiLDREN ARE NO OLDER THAN FiVE.
This kind of behavior from a child that age is totally unacceptable. And the sight of the adults supporting//encouraging this little performance disgusted the hell out of me. This video is very disappointing. It made me think about my duty as a mentor, a role model, and an older sister. Maybe it would make a slight difference in the comportment of todays .youngest. if we handed them the 'Bad' album instead of 'Blue Stars'. The finger points in may directions; Doing things like using the word .assurely. and saying that 'Pussy Poppin' is an ignorant term when we use the word .nigga. when refering to our friends is just as ignorant, contributes to the problem as well.
I believe that that video was horrible. The parents should be ashamesf themselves and they should be charged with child neglect. do not feel as though the artists, Lil Wayne, 50 CENTS ans others should be to blame. I am quite sure that their kids are not dancing like that to these songs. So let's leave the blame where it should be, on all the people that was at that party over the age of 28. A TOTAL DISGRACE AND DISRESPECT TO THIS LITTLE GIRL. She deserves so more than that.
Denise from Laurel
This is soo awesome..I would like to thank hip hop and the black culture for this = )
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